Accidental Wedding Crasher

Today I found myself in a slightly awkward position. I became a wedding crasher.

Just me and the guys, crashing weddings

Dan and I are in Southern England while he attends a business meeting. I am reaping the rewards by staying in a lovely hotel and relaxing. After a nice breakfast, I wandered into the hotel library to get a bit of work done and noticed that everyone was very dressed up. In fact, a few men had flowers pinned to their lapels...hmm...

As I continued to look around, I noticed the guitar player set up in the corner; two little children in adorable matching suits and a man with a very nice camera moving around the room. Yeah...I was in the middle of a wedding.

I had already parked myself on the sofa in the library, which was adjacent to the actual ceremony and reception. As any typical Generation Y'er would do, I posted my dilemma on Facebook. Some of the responses I got are priceless:

In case you can't read them, my favorite pieces of advice were:

• Act like I know the bride and groom, wish them congrats and go straight to the appetizers
• Run up to the groom and act like it's his baby I'm carrying
• Scan the room for Vince Vaughn
• Stand up and make a toast

In the end, I just stayed where I was and watched the happy couple mingle with their friends. Sadly, there wasn't any free food and I abstained from the champagne, but it was a lovely way to spend a morning :)

19 Weeks!

This was a fun week for me. I got to hang out with my good friends Dina and Ed who were visiting from the States. My friend Karen hosted an awesome girls-only sleepover on Saturday where we did nothing but eat junk food and laugh. And, Dan got to feel the baby kick for the first time!

If all goes well, we should know the sex of the baby by this time next week. Dan and I both think we're having a boy. I don't have a real reason behind my guess, but Dan said he thinks I'm having a boy because my stomach is getting so big. Ha! What do you think baby Levin is?

How far along? 19 weeks

Maternity clothes? Yup

Stretch marks? No

Sleep? Not too bad

Best moment of the week: The girls' sleepover, hosted by Karen

Miss anything? Nope

Movement: Tons! I can even feel it from the outside now!

Food cravings:  None

Anything making you queasy or sick: No

Have you started to show yet? Definitely

Gender: We find out next week!!!

Belly Button in or out? Out-ish. It's still neutral most of the time, but when I move certain muscles it pops right out

Wedding rings on or off? On

Happy or Moody most of the time? Happy

Looking forward to: Finding out the sex next week!

Cards Against Humanity

Have you ever heard of the card came Cards Against Humanity? Until very recently, neither had I. Let me tell you though, it's now one of my favorite things.

The game is very similar to Apples-to-Apples, if you've ever played that. Everyone is dealt several "answer" cards that vary from one word, to long phrases. Players take turns reading a "question" card. All other players throw down an answer to the question. For example, the question card may read:

What are my parents hiding from me?

And someone may throw down this card:

A murder most foul

The tagline for the game is "A Party Game for Horrible People." Most of the cards are very dirty, politically incorrect, or otherwise inappropriate. If you can check your tact at the door, this game is hilarious. I highly recommend it!

Dina and Ed Come to England!

Last week one of my best friends came to visit me in England! The last time I saw Dina was at her wedding in April.

In the nearly 13 years we've known each other, this is the longest time we've gone without seeing each other. It was so great to spend some quality time with her and her new hubby Ed!

We managed to squeeze a lot into their four days in North Yorkshire. Dina and Ed were treated to a gorgeous snowy England. This is definitely the most snow we've had since Dan and I have been here. We made the most of it with great outdoor hikes and lots of tea breaks :)

Harrogate in the snow

Tea break!

Some highlights included our time with Mr. George Pickles, the Ripon Hornblower, and our visit to Richmond. Everything was closed for winter, but we went on a fun hike around the castle.

The Ripon Hornblower

Waterfalls in Richmond

Richmond castle

We did tons more, but I didn't take a lot of pictures. Overall, it was a great few days! It went by way too fast, of course. Thanks for coming to visit us Dina and Ed! Come back soon!

18 Weeks!

It was another growth week for me and the baby. It's really exciting, but at the same time I'm starting to feel those aches and pains that pregnant people talk about. It's harder to do simple things like put on my shoes and get in and out of the car.

I'm still absolutely loving being pregnant though. It's an amazing experience to watch my body change in such a dramatic way. I definitely need to buy more maternity pants though!

How far along? 18 weeks

Maternity clothes? Pretty much. I can still wear regular shirts, but I'm in stretchy pants, dresses or skirts

Stretch marks? No

Sleep? It's getting harder to get comfortable, but the Snoogle helps

Best moment of the week: Hanging out with Dina and Ed!

Miss anything? Nope

Movement: Yes! I love it!

Food cravings:  None

Anything making you queasy or sick: No

Have you started to show yet? Definitely

Gender: We don't know yet

Belly Button in or out? Still neutral. Neither in nor out 

Wedding rings on or off? On

Happy or Moody most of the time? Happy

Looking forward to: Having Dan feel the baby kick

More Explorations of Malta

After a great day exploring Gozo, we checked out the main island. Malta is home to some very impressive prehistoric ruins, including the world's only underground prehistoric temple called the Hypogeum. It's a UNESCO-run World Heritage site and only 80 people are allowed in per day! Unfortunately we were not allowed to take any pictures in the temple.

Malta's first settlers came via a land bridge from Sicily. It was really cool to see an intricately carved and designed temple that is more than 5,000 years old. Fortunately we were allowed to take pictures at the Tarxien Temple, which was built between 3600-2500 BC. I liked the sacrificial alter the best. It's fascinating to see goats, rams and a pig in such detail.

Animal sacrifice alter

That afternoon we headed to the capital of Malta, Valletta. We made the most of the gorgeous sunshine with a walk around the coast and a lunch by the water.

I really enjoyed Valletta. It has a wonderful medieval feel, with narrow streets and stone facades. And the views are spectacular. The old city walls were particularly impressive. Check out the cars at the bottom right corner of the picture--it gives you a sense of how massive these are.

Old city walls

Our final day in Malta was a short one since we had a plane to catch at 3pm. We started with an early-morning visit to the fish market in Marsaxlokk. I highly recommend a stop here. It's wonderful to see the local fisherman selling their fresh catches. Marsaxlokk is famous for their painted boats called luzzu. I loved seeing an entire harbor filled with them.

We had time for just one more stop before heading to the airport. Mdina is very small, but cute. We ate at Fontanella, which had great views. We could see all the way to Sliema (where our apartment was) and Valletta. This country is tiny!

It was a short, but much needed trip. I'm so lucky to have great friends to share these awesome trips with. 

Exploring Gozo, Malta

I found a cheap flight to Malta and decided to see who wanted to join me. Pretty soon, eight of us were off to explore the Mediterranean island! To be honest, I didn't know much about Malta. I knew that it was south of Italy and had Mediterranean weather. My friends Dain and Heather wanted to go there for their honeymoon, so I knew it had to be good.

Group shot, courtesy Katie Bolt

Malta is definitely worth a trip. For such a small country, there is a lot to see, and of course eat! We left late on a Thursday night and came home on Sunday afternoon. That gave us enough time to explore both the main island and Gozo, which I highly recommend.

The highlight of the trip for me was the Azure window. We took the ferry over to Gozo to see the famous limestone arch. It was a VERY windy day, but we had a great time exploring.

A little windy on the ferry

Azure window

We stumbled upon a fantastic little bakery for lunch. The oven is more than 150 years old! We tried a local speciality called qassatat. It's a flaky cheese and egg pastry with a custardy filling (like a soufflé). Traditionally they have raisins too, but mine was plain. It was really delicious--so much so that we bought another one for breakfast the next day. We also had a traditional Maltese pizza with cheese, onion, olives, capers, tomatoes and anchovies. It was a little fishy, but very tasty.

Qassatat, photo courtesy of Katie Bolt

Gozo is small enough to see in a day. We drove along the coasts to see the beautiful cliffs; we saw Rabbat (Victoria), the capital; and we stopped for a pint in Xlendi.

It was a great day in Gozo, but it was only the beginning of the trip. Stay tuned for more!