Family Ice Skating

A few weeks ago I was looking back at my past blog posts and saw that Zahara went ice skating for the first time right around the age Asher is now. At first Dan and I laughed, and thought it impossible to imagine Ash on the ice right now. But, he's made huge leaps recently and is much more agile competent at walking than before. I'm always astounded how a few weeks can make a huge difference in skill level. So, as we were looking for something to do on a random weekend, we thought we'd give ice skating a go.

We had very low expectations for the day. We thought if we could manage thirty minutes of cry-free time, it would be a huge success. And, that's about what we got! Both kids did great, actually. Zahara loved it, but was really sad she wasn't better. She kept looking at some older girls who were taking lessons and saying: "But they can do twirls, why can't I? It's no fair!" So...ice skating lessons might be in her future? Hopefully not for a while. I'm not ready to get up at 4 am to drive her to practice every morning.

Asher thought it was great, and weird. He liked it, but was confused about what he was supposed to do with his feet. We mostly had to just hold him by the arm pits, which is a bit rough on the back after a while.

It was fun, and I'm glad we went. If for nothing else than to see the cutest little ice skates you ever did see! I mean, come on!

See Zahara's first time ice skating here

Dear Asher: 21 Months

Dear Asher,

Happy 21-month birthday! Another great month in the books. We went to Dallas for Passover, we had friends come visit, and we finally got to enjoy some warm weather. You're just getting more and more fun.

Just like last month, you've gone through some major developments. You are chatting up a storm now, with tons of new words every day. You're like a parrot, repeating everything we say.  You know a lot of shapes, objects, vehicles, and sounds. You're especially good at animal sounds, and have even started making jokes pretending that a cow says baa and a duck says moo.

Speaking of jokes, you are a little comedian, making up jokes and doing silly things to make us laugh. This is the first month where it seems you are intentionally changing your behavior to get a certain reaction. I love it!

This is the first month also where you are able to understand and complete simple tasks. If we ask you to bring us a specific item, you can do it. You will (most of the time) listen if we ask you to bring your shoes in the morning, for example. Shoes are an easy one though because you are OBSESSED with being outside. You love walking and biking outside and will have a meltdown if we don't let you out--even in the cold and rain! Hearing you say "outside, outside" in your little voice makes me smile.

We think you're getting your two-year molars now. You've been a little sadder than usual and your hands are constantly in your mouth. Hopefully those pop out soon and you can get some relief.

Ash, we can't believe what a big boy you are. From sitting in your own seat, to brushing your own teeth (with help), to being a great little brother, you're turning out to be a wonderful little boy. We are so lucky to have you complete our family!

April Thoughts by Z

These thoughts give me a little glimmer into Zahara's future. I'm not sure if I should be proud, or scared.

Thought 1:
Z (to Dan after he said she could only have one snack): Because of how you're acting, when it's my birthday you have to leave the house and can only watch through the window. And you can't have cake.

Thought 2:
Z (to me): I know I'm not supposed to correct you, but I'm just correcting you for fun.

Thought 3:
Z: I'm going to be a president. Presidents are in charge of everyone when Hashem (G-d) is not here.

Thought 4:
Z (Putting a sparkly headband on me): You look better with a little bit of glitter.

See previous Thoughts by Z here

Dear Asher: 20 Months

Dear Asher,

Happy 20 month birthday! What a fun month this has been (despite your two-year molars coming in)! You went through a big leap this month, both in language and motor skills. You are running all around now. You're even walking up and down stairs, with help. I love when you come up to me and grab my hand to lead me on a walk. You also say hi and bye to people now, which is really adorable.

You're speaking a lot more now. You're still using mostly one word at a time, but you copy everything anyone says, and have started incorporating those words in to your vocabulary. It's amazing how much you understand. You show comprehension through shakes of the head no, and slow nods yes. It cracks me up. You'll say yes or no too, but you are so serious with the head nods.

Speaking of serious, one of our favorite games right now is making faces at each other. We make a serious face, a happy face, a surprised face, and lots of silly faces. I love that we can play interactive games now.

Things you hate: diaper changes; not having milk the instant you want it; being in your car seat; eating green vegetables with daddy (you're OK with me); being put down. You love sweets; pretending to drive cars (especially honking the horn); and your sister (though it's not always mutual).

Asher, each month is getting more and more fun. We love you to the moon and back!

Quarterly House Update

It's been another three months since I last checked in with the progress of our house, so I figured I was due. It's been a whirlwind of a winter around here. Some good, some not-so-good, but we ended winter with a snowfall that covered our house and lawn in a gorgeous blanket of white. Just when I think it's not possible to love the house more, I discover that we have the perfect sledding hill in our backyard!

We've been really busy with house updates too, including some major ones like a new deck and patio! Guys, it looks SO GOOD!! Dan and I worked with a couple of designers to get exactly what we wanted. It's a nice sized deck (14x16) with a large patio underneath (14x28). We wanted some area that was covered and some that was open so that we can have a fire pit. We also designed the stairs so that we maximized the patio area and still kept our view of the woods behind our house. It's been too cold/rainy/windy to use it so far, but I can't wait for the warmer months to test it out. 

We also have a kitchen backsplash! We originally were going to install it ourselves over winter break. That didn't happen. First, we had a much tougher time picking out tile than we thought. It took three rounds to find one we loved (including purchasing the full job's worth of tile of one before deciding we didn't like it). A lot of the ones we loved were glass, which was a bit intimidating. We were quickly running out of time when the kids were in day care but we were off work, so we decided to hire it out. Thank goodness we did! The tile guy spent an entire day just making his cuts--so.many.cuts. We LOVE how it turned out though. It adds so much depth and personality to the room. 

Another task we accomplished during winter break was organizing the basement. We wanted something that would be durable, functional, and pretty. Since it's meant for a kid's space, we didn't want anything too precious, so we went with some IKEA hacks. We were gifted the table and chairs, which I then painted a light blue and gray. We purchased this bookshelf, turned it on its side, and made a cushion for the top (tutorial coming soon). These adorable canvas bins fit perfectly in the cubbies. We flanked the bookshelf with these other cubes that came in this fun turquoise color. Then I painted some wooden letters to give it the final touch. 

Lastly, we finally got lights in Zahara's room and the master bedroom. I found an awesome deal over the holidays for this gorgeous capiz chandelier at nearly half off! I'll have to take a picture of it in her room. It looks stunning.

And our room got some glam with this crystal drop chandelier and ceiling medallion. We searched forever to find a light fixture we agreed on, and finally found this Pottery Barn stunner. But at more than $1,000 it gave me pause. Luckily, I found this nearly-identical knock-off from Overstock at only $200! Dan gave the metal part a quick coat of metallic spray paint to give it an antiqued finish, and it looks amazing. The rest of the room needs a bit of help. Slowly, but surely.

It's really coming together, don't you think? Still tons more to do, but I really love this place. Here is our to-do list from the last update. We're making progress!

• Kitchen backsplash (we're doing this ourselves over winter break!)
• Kitchen bar stools
• Dining room table and chairs
• Office furniture (have a desk, need a place for printer and files, etc.)
• Mudroom build-out (need a place for coats, backpacks, shoes)
• Basement organization (bookshelves, toy storage)
• Basement guest room curtains
• Master bedroom bedframe (we put our old one in the guest room )
• Master bedroom curtains
• Master bedroom furniture (probably a bench for the end of the bed and a chaise lounge)
• Master bedroom light (it's roughed in, but we need a fixture)
• Asher room light
• Zahara room light
• Guest room curtains (bedroom and bathroom)
• Guest room nightstands
• Decor throughout the house (nothing is on the walls yet and it's starting to drive me crazy!)

And a couple of new items to add:

• Patio furniture
• Deck furniture
• Fire Pit?

Snow Day!

It snowed! And it was glorious! Beautiful puffy snow that blanketed our neighborhood. I was supposed to be working from home, but with the kids and Dan off school and so much fun to be had, I decided to play hooky.

With the help of our neighbors who have a daughter Zahara's age, we made a giant snowman. The kids gathered the sticks for his arms, rocks for his eyes, a carrot for the nose, and a hat and scarf to keep him warm. 

It was so great watching the kids play in the snow. Asher is really in to his bike right now and didn't get the idea that it would be hard to bike in the snow. It worked out OK for him.

While Asher was napping, our neighbors brought their sled around to our backyard. It turns out our yard is perfect for sledding--a gentle hill that works well for little kids. We saw some bigger kids sledding down a bigger hill nearby.

How pretty is our house in the snow??

We called it quits before anyone got too cold and cranky. A nice cup of hot chocolate was the perfect ending to a great snow day!

Girls Day Out at Drybar

I've never had a blow-out before, but after listening to the founder of Drybar on the How I Built This podcast, I decided I wanted to give it a try so I asked for a certificate for Chanukah. The concept is simple: you pick a style from their look book and a stylist washes and blow dries your hair. That's it. No cuts, no color, just styling. 

I thought it sounded like something fun to do with friends, so I invited my mom's group ladies for Drybar and brunch. The verdict: it was fun, but I won't be a regular. 

The atmosphere and service at Drybar were great. I had read online that they offer you champagne when you arrive, but when we came they told us they were out. I joked that I was only in it for the champagne, and next thing I knew they had gone out and bought a bottle just for our group! 

The hair washing felt lovely, but nothing too different from a regular hair cut. The blowout was good. I chose the Cosmo, which is billed as lots of loose curls. They definitely delivered. My final look was a really close match to the look book. And they didn't burn me once, which is something I'm always paranoid about.

My hair never holds a style for long, so while this was really fun and the outcome was beautiful, it's not something I would do on a regular basis. I can see myself doing it again for another girls' day out, or a wedding or other special event though. And showing up to brunch looking fabulous was definitely a perk.

Have you been to Drybar? Let me know what you thought!